Getting a girl to like you can seem like an impossible task. Of course, confidence is crucial in these desperate situations of unrequited love. If you have something of a crush on a girl that you like, this guide will give you practical advice on how to get that girl. The ladies love nothing more than a practical man:
Confidence is Sexy
Of course, this may be a little cliché and can be difficult to master, should you not be entirely confident in the first place. It cannot be stressed enough how important confidence is in a man. Ladies love a cool, confident guy, so you need to epitomise this.
The key to remaining confident is to be spontaneous. Do not over plan the first thing that you will say to your beloved. If it doesn’t go according to plan, you will be replaying the awful scenario in your head for many years to come. It doesn’t matter if you splutter your words if you are a little nervous, but over planning and over thinking a scenario is not going to help you get your dream lady. Click here to find out more about how to get a girl to like you.
Confidence comes from within, so you need to have faith in yourself.
Don’t Be Needy
There is nothing that girls find more repulsive than neediness in a man. Remember, she has the right to personal space, so following her round, sending her poetry and stalking her Facebook page is not going to work. While you may want to be around her all the time, smelling her hair, it is going to be rather off-putting for your lady love. Be cool. You don’t need to be around her all the time. Just say ‘hello’ when you see her and build a rapport that way.
Speak to Her!
So many men don’t actually speak to the person that they want to date. Of course, this goes for women too. Speak to your crush, let her know that you exist. If she doesn’t know that you are alive, how will she ever want to date you?
Build a relationship that is based on friendship and trust. Become her friend. The ‘friendzone’ is not a real thing. All the best relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship. If you cannot be friends, you can never be in a trusting, or long lasting, relationship. If you don’t believe us, look at Chandler and Monica (sure, they may be fictional, but they’re a perfect example of friends becoming so much more.)
Be Yourself
Yes, this advice is rather cliché, but being yourself is imperative to ensuring that your dream girl thinks that you are her dream guy. Don’t pretend to be something you’re not, you will only get found out and she will feel betrayed. If you don’t like playing sports, then don’t pretend that you are interested in sports. If Star Trek is your thing, then talk about it. Not too much though. Be passionate about your likes and dislikes. Girls love a man that is passionate about things, no matter how weird, or nerdy, that they may seem. Being yourself is so important, yet many people fail to realise the true importance of this.
